Firstly it's not want or wanting, it's about need. It's about exceptional circumstances and those who feel the need. My sisters, daughters or nieces don't feel the need or don't have those exceptional circumstances or the situation or condition where they feel the need.
Just because my sisters etc feel this way and have not or do not want to engage in Mutah doesn't mean it's bad or Haram. And those men and women who have exceptional circumstances or situation/condition and feel the need are not engaging in Haram, committing sin or doing anything wrong.
Due to exceptional circumstances if someone is on a situation or condition where they feel the need only then Mutah is better than engaging in Haram and committing sin. As far as I'm concerned, no. I have never been engaged in Mutah. Why? Not because I think it's bad or strange but because I don't feel the need. Just as simple as that.
Secondly let me ask you this, you are allowed to have more than one wife. Yes sir. You can have up to four at any one time. Now if you decided to remarry, have a second wife then tell me would your first wife be glad about it? Would she be over the moon that my husband is going to follow the Prophet's (s) sunah? Would she be sending out and distributing your wedding cards? And if you had children out of your first marriage how would they feel? Would they be proud of you?
1) That is such a wrong answer that I don’t know what you was thinking when responding with this answer, it’s wrong on many levels.
Exceptional circumstances? That could only mean one thing someone who has the urge all day long and can’t hold it and it becomes an exceptional circumstance, a nympho a xxx addict, someone who needs SATISFYING!.....and your answer is to satisfy that exceptional circumstance you Shias do mutah.
It’s all about the need, but I see plenty even my own Shia friends having girlfriends/boyfriends and you ask them about mutah.......”urhg”...”nasty”....”astaghfirullah “.......even ....”it’s prostitution bro.”
They are fulfilling their needs by using western standards and not Islamic (shiia Islam).
I don’t know which bubble you are in.
Maybe in your eyes they may not know Shia Islam......judging by your answers I think it’s best they didn’t.
It’s not nice full stop and whether you have needs or not there are ways to confront such problems............
2) Remarry.....a good pious woman will let you REMARRY on Islamic terms as long as you can be equal with both and the same......Obviously it’s not perfect and you do have problems. In marriage respect comes before needs.Its more respectful to offer life companionship and love rather than a one night stand contract “without strings attached”.
You have Shiites galore running about having many different girlfriends changing like they change clothes......yet they are dumbfounded on answering mutah......so these Shiites that have needs why don’t they mutah instead?
If it has benefits and is a blessed act in Shia Islam....why not go to reap the benefits?
What’s up with da yooth man!!!
Which is easier for them to bring home?
A girlfriend or a temporary mutah contract for exceptional circumstances??
I know many Shia would choose the first.
Like a brother said.....these exceptional circumstances seem to be your main answer or a cop out answer, either way it doesn’t make sense.
Try answering from another angle......maybe???
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