Walaykum as salaam wa rahmatullahi wa barakathu,
Apples and oranges, brother! One verse is a command upon believers and the other is in regards to confirming something (an incident to be specific) before spreading rumors. I am sure you know the commentary of the verse. If we were to take your analysis of verse 83, it would be as though you are saying that all matters must be referred to the Prophet (saw) and those in authority then what about Allah (swt)?
Salamun Alaykum dear brother.
Brother, I am agree with you that the verse 83 talks about a specific thing, but brother it is a Khass (خاص، specific) verse which has an 'Amm (عام، general) meaning. Fore example, Allah says in the verse 59:7,
The spoils that Allah gave to His Apostle from the people of the townships, are for Allah and the Apostle, the relatives and the orphans, the needy and the traveller, so that they do not circulate among the rich among you;
And take whatever the Apostle gives you, and refrain from whatever he forbids you, and be wary of Allah. Indeed Allah is severe in retribution.
This verse talks about a Khass [specific] thing [i.e., the spoils], but has an 'Amm [general] meaning. the rule of this verse does not includes only the issue about which the verse talks [i.e., the spoils]. We must take whatever the Apostle gives us, and refrain from whatever he forbids us. Just like this, the verse 83 has a general meaning. Indeed, because we must generally refer our issues to Prophet and Ulul Amr, so that Allah said that we must refer the rumors to them. Yes, we must refer all of our issues to Allah (i.e., Quran), too; But because in this case [knowing that the rumors are true or false], the Book of Allah does not help the Muslims, Allah did not mentioned Himself in that verse.
Quite a predicament considering that it was compiled during the minor occultation of the 12th Imam. My take home message from that chapter (and the preceding chapter) - and I can take pictures of all the narrations falling under that chapter and post them here for you - is that the Imams (ra) themselves urged people to refer everything back to the Qur'an and Sunnah. That completely renders the concept of Imamah useless.
Dear brother, you are correct that the Al-Kafi was collected in the time of the occultation of Imam Al-Mahdi (as), but Al-Kafi of Al-Kolayni (ra) is a collection of the Hadiths which were collected in the books of the companions of the other Imams (as). So, there is not any predicaments. Imams used to encourage their companions to write their Hadiths. fore example, Imam As-Sadiq (as) said to one of his companions: Write, and spread your knowledge among your brethren. Then before you pass away, inherit your books to your son. Verily a critical time will come to the people where they won't find peace within themselves unless it's with their books. (Al-Kafi, V.1, P.52)
Dear brother, you have understand those Hadiths incorrectly. Those Hadiths means that
the narrated Hadiths of Imams must be referred to the Quran and Sunna, not the clear sayings of Imams that a person has heard directly from them. Also it should be said that this referring is for the 'Ahaad Hadiths, not the Mustafeez or Mutiwateer ones. Also, I should say that there are Hadiths from Imams in which it is said that we must refer the 'Ahaad Hadiths to the certain Hadiths of Imams, too (for example, Wasa'il Ash-Shia'i, V.18, P.89).
Again, apples and oranges! Musa (asws) and his mother (asws) are far above those you refer to as Imams (ra). First, as we have been saying for centuries, establish the credibility of your claims from the Qur'an and then we can proceed from there. As for Musa (asws) and his mother (asws), the Qur'an testifies in their favor so we hear and we obey. Is there anything for your Imams (ra)?
Brother, do you mean that the family of Prophet Moses (as) are far above than the family of the best of the creatures, i.e., Prophet Muhammad (sawaws)?!! I think you should prove your claim. Quran says that Allah has purified the Ahlul Bayt (as) with a thorough purification [for more details, see my posts in
"Confused Shia considering becoming Sunni" thread]. But there is not such this saying about the mother of Moses (as). Prophet said that Quran and Ahlul Bayt never separate from each other. He also said about Imam Ali: Ali is with Quran and Quran is with Ali and they will not separate from each other until they come to me at the Pool.
Also see the ff Hadith about which At-Tirmidhi has said that it is Hasan:
Narrated Jabir:
"The Messenger of Allah (s) called 'Ali on the Day (of the battle) of At-Ta'if, and spoke privately with him, so the people said: 'His private conversation with his cousin has grown lengthy.' So the Messenger of Allah (s) said: '
I did not speak privately with him, rather Allah spoke privately with him.'"
There is huge contradiction. In fact, the entire thing portrays Imams (ra), at least Imam Hussain (ra), in negative light when we realize that he presented himself to death in Karbala, fully knowing his hour of death. That is suicide to me, irrespective of how many circles you dance around that point.
Dear brother, if Imam Al-Husain (as) knew the time of his martyrdom, this means that he knew what Allah has written for him in the Preserved Tablet [Al-Lawh Al-Mahfooz]. Imam Al-Husain (as) couldn't chain what was read in the Preserved Tablet. So, his doing has no relation to the suicide.
Best wishes!